tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9089116646566328147.post4746056672812262916..comments2023-04-13T19:49:34.131+10:00Comments on Journey of Love and Submission: Erratic PostsHezhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10045994566818889148noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9089116646566328147.post-85366150468746826982013-08-09T16:49:04.842+10:002013-08-09T16:49:04.842+10:00Hey Es May!
Yep Malaysia was great! On business t...Hey Es May!<br /><br />Yep Malaysia was great! On business though, so not much sight seeing went on. <br />It is working a lot better now that he is in charge completely...though I do have to admit tonight to spending money that I had not asked to spend...drat :(<br />No more grey areas has helped a lot over the last week when this way was implemented. <br />Maybe I should suggest to The Silence that blogging should be on the list of extra chores :)<br /><br />Lots of hugs!Hezhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10045994566818889148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9089116646566328147.post-36116361078140219642013-08-09T16:45:09.858+10:002013-08-09T16:45:09.858+10:00Hey Callie
Thanks :)
Trust does have to be maint...Hey Callie<br /><br />Thanks :)<br /><br />Trust does have to be maintained. It has become such a big issue now with DD/TTWD. Everything is magnified...along with all of our faults :(<br />Hezhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10045994566818889148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9089116646566328147.post-84281685023638774172013-08-09T16:43:49.877+10:002013-08-09T16:43:49.877+10:00Hey Grace,
Trust does work both ways, and I think...Hey Grace,<br /><br />Trust does work both ways, and I think in some ways that The Silence trusts me more than he should in some areas...<br />I do need to remember that no one is perfect...except for that perfect teenage hearing!!<br /><br />Hugs<br />Hezhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10045994566818889148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9089116646566328147.post-6453960968740592872013-08-09T16:41:48.663+10:002013-08-09T16:41:48.663+10:00Hey English Rose
Thanks for your comment. Yes The...Hey English Rose<br /><br />Thanks for your comment. Yes The Silence is keeping track :) 'A good girl'...well I try :)<br /><br />HugsHezhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10045994566818889148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9089116646566328147.post-70578981012907410942013-08-09T16:40:52.297+10:002013-08-09T16:40:52.297+10:00Hi Sunnygirl
You are so right..I do need to step ...Hi Sunnygirl<br /><br />You are so right..I do need to step back. It is something in my nature that is quite hard to do, though it is getting easier and easier :) (on some days)Hezhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10045994566818889148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9089116646566328147.post-26983205681465137222013-08-09T11:49:44.586+10:002013-08-09T11:49:44.586+10:00So glad to see you again. :) Malaysia, wow. That...So glad to see you again. :) Malaysia, wow. That must have been quite a trip? :) I hope that leaving things all in the Silence's hand brings about the balance that will work for you both, and that you can find ways to keep your rolls in place, even while your daughter is around. {{{HUGS}}} And I'm all for the Silence putting blogging on your list. ;) Just saying. :)Es Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15862166523815621955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9089116646566328147.post-89382251672809274592013-08-09T09:04:13.644+10:002013-08-09T09:04:13.644+10:00Welcome back. Trust is so hard. Once earned it has...Welcome back. Trust is so hard. Once earned it has to be maintained. It takes a lot to build up and small niggling things can tear it down. <br /><br />CallieCalliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08722173496181331492noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9089116646566328147.post-77768767510710644952013-08-09T03:02:52.823+10:002013-08-09T03:02:52.823+10:00Trust is a biggie, that's for sure. And I thi...Trust is a biggie, that's for sure. And I think it's as big for them as it is for us. They need us to trust them and they need to be able to trust us. We need to be able to trust them and we need them to be able to trust us. It's something that takes time, effort, and understanding from both parties. None of us are perfect and each of us will fall short sometimes. It sounds like overall things are going well right now though, so that's great! I totally understand what you're saying about teenage hearing too. Ugh. Good luck with that!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9089116646566328147.post-71535491168265123012013-08-08T21:09:06.360+10:002013-08-08T21:09:06.360+10:00Hi Hez, glad you are back, I know how hard it is t...Hi Hez, glad you are back, I know how hard it is to do the waiting thing, but at least the Silence is keeping track. Try not to worry about will he won't he carry on just keep your fingers crossed and be a good girl:)<br />love Jan.xx an English Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00696976759167193635noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9089116646566328147.post-17915764080476778432013-08-08T12:23:16.785+10:002013-08-08T12:23:16.785+10:00For the journey to be successful you will have to ...For the journey to be successful you will have to let go. After all, you put him in charge now you have to step back and let him lead. Sounds so simple and yet so difficult. Good luck.Aimless Ramblinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00720714875762344391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9089116646566328147.post-19537341383860152332013-08-08T10:08:07.812+10:002013-08-08T10:08:07.812+10:00Well hello Willie!
Trust is such a delicate thing...Well hello Willie!<br /><br />Trust is such a delicate thing... I am learning to just take one day at time at the moment. Which is hard for me, as I like to see things ahead.<br /><br />Maybe I need The Silence to add 'blog and chat' to the daily list just to ensure that I actually get on here!<br /><br />Hugs back at you WillieHezhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10045994566818889148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9089116646566328147.post-67554949712088227302013-08-08T09:54:56.494+10:002013-08-08T09:54:56.494+10:00Well *ONCE AGAIN* I'm happy you're back! L...Well *ONCE AGAIN* I'm happy you're back! LOL.<br /><br />Trust, there is that word again. It is a deadly ttwd circle that can be created, and hard to break. You need to trust him, so he can lead more confidently, but yet when he 'messes up' ( sorry Silence, thinking of it in her mind) you loose the trust...starting a spiral of negativity, which may cause him to further not lead confidently, thus causing more lack of trust! <br /><br />Grrrrrrrrr. I suppose we all need to figure out a way to let our hearts feel what our minds know, 'we mess up, how come they can't?'.<br /><br />Stop worrying about the future, because you'll miss the good of the present ( so I read on some Charlie Brown Facebook thing!)<br /><br />Big hugs<br />love Williewilliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01907855123777628267noreply@blogger.com