tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9089116646566328147.post8078794264684363329..comments2023-04-13T19:49:34.131+10:00Comments on Journey of Love and Submission: Caves, Control and Giving InHezhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10045994566818889148noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9089116646566328147.post-14505909432779730742013-01-05T14:55:25.943+10:002013-01-05T14:55:25.943+10:00Thanks Susie, great reply :) Still looking for tha...Thanks Susie, great reply :) Still looking for that little bit of submissive that is trying to peek out :)<br /><br />HugsHezhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10045994566818889148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9089116646566328147.post-23795832127281431662013-01-05T14:54:17.231+10:002013-01-05T14:54:17.231+10:00Thanks Elle :)
Yes, I have to learn that I am ...Thanks Elle :)<br /><br />Yes, I have to learn that I am 'worth it' Thanks for the hugs :)<br /> Hugs back :)Hezhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10045994566818889148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9089116646566328147.post-37058271803810073572013-01-05T05:44:02.151+10:002013-01-05T05:44:02.151+10:00Giving up control is so hard M3! I know it and li...Giving up control is so hard M3! I know it and live it and suck at it too, but I also know that what we've been given in ttwd is so much more precious than that control. First we have to believe that our husbands love us as unconditionally as humans are able and that we are deserving of all the love they give us. We ladies tend to not feel like we deserve all this attention. <br /><br />I hope the dams keep breaking for you. There's a tiny little submissive M3 somewhere ready to peek out.Susiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00511114118020790717noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9089116646566328147.post-11050806475895422922013-01-04T23:39:32.088+10:002013-01-04T23:39:32.088+10:00Hugs, M3. I hate that you're having a bump in ...Hugs, M3. I hate that you're having a bump in the road like we did. Yay for The Silence! He said the most important thing. YOU ARE WORTH IT!! You will get out of the cave and the two of you will be better for it. <br />Lol bum sore I have too Wilma Yoda ;) elle :)https://www.blogger.com/profile/15832857681848198913noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9089116646566328147.post-72859590666228307512013-01-04T11:33:41.990+10:002013-01-04T11:33:41.990+10:00Wilma Yoda Rubble...yep. Sounds good to me :) and ...Wilma Yoda Rubble...yep. Sounds good to me :) and Yoda sits a lot too.<br /><br />You would currently be saying (if you were Yoda)<br /><br />'Bum sore I have' :)Hezhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10045994566818889148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9089116646566328147.post-1282493701623782872013-01-04T11:20:04.855+10:002013-01-04T11:20:04.855+10:00Yoda? Are you drunk? You do know I am sitting on...Yoda? Are you drunk? You do know I am sitting on a very sore bum at the moment right? Ever thought I just like to type? LOLwilliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01907855123777628267noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9089116646566328147.post-47353126313910570622013-01-04T10:33:01.414+10:002013-01-04T10:33:01.414+10:00Hey Willie
Life was easier before ttwd...and yes ...Hey Willie<br /><br />Life was easier before ttwd...and yes we do know the answer to that one :) It was easier...but not better, oh no, not by any means was it better.<br /><br />I have thought that with all that is going on could have an affect on my current state of emotions. Very easy to get sucked into that tornado when you are close to those issues yourself.<br /><br />As for the torch....bwahahaha to you too..... :) I like that torch :)<br /><br />Thanks once again for your insightfulness :) We should start calling you Yoda...with all your wisdom :)<br /><br />Hugs Willie :)<br />Hezhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10045994566818889148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9089116646566328147.post-41045351784947098162013-01-04T08:27:25.702+10:002013-01-04T08:27:25.702+10:00Life was easier before ttwd, but was it better? J...Life was easier before ttwd, but was it better? Just really a rhetorical question, because we know the answer.<br /><br />You have had a busy time of it as of late, with your trip, the holidays, that weren't what you wanted, and this other 'thing' coming up. Very emotional. Have you given is some thought that perhaps your distancing was dealing with those things, and that Silence just got sucked into that tornado ?<br /><br />I'm not saying that makes it 'right' - I'm just saying it is something to think about when you are so hard on yourself with your submission. You are turning to tried and true tactics from the past, to 'help' you with emotional stuff. Only now that we have all started ttwd, we know that 'help' is an illusion. <br /><br />You've got a man committed to you, and your relationship. He'll keep lighting a torch ( bwahahaha oh you know what kind!) until you find your way out of the cave.<br /><br />Fear not I have enough faith for the both of you.<br /><br />Much Love<br />Williewilliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01907855123777628267noreply@blogger.com