Well once again I am back.
Seems to be the story of my life at the moment...here again...gone again.
Once our daughter came back (after the renovating capers) I found it hard to find time to actually blog. Then two weeks in Malaysia. Have been back a week and have been flat out keeping up with the housework and all those other wifely duties that we all do from day to day.
There have been changes.
There has been a lot of 'off again/on again' DD days and weeks.
We now have The Silence in complete charge of all things. There are no grey areas to cause anymore 'should I or shouldn't I' questions.
This has been a lot easier I think for both of us.
It is his way or no way. Simple as.
Still hard to do things while the daughter remains at home and still have to work out some disciplines can be done without her knowledge. Teenage daughters have the most amazing hearing until it comes time to do the dishes or tidy their room!
So far we have Tuesday and Friday evenings to ourselves so that is a bonus...though sometimes it is hard to have to wait for things to be dealt with over the days that she is home.
Anyway that is about it really..not much to say, other than The Silence is getting good at stepping up and sorting things out. I still have a niggling feeling that this will all go up in smoke at some stage. That comes from previous times of things not being followed through for days.
It is a trust issue. It is an issue that eventually I will have to let go.
Keep smiling, have a spank free day!