Anyway, I was talking to him this morning about how I read others blogs here in blogland, and it amazes that 90% of the time within hours of each other we are either putting a foot wrong or having a meltdown. This is more so, in those of us that have just started on this road in the last few months.
Now wondering if it is something in the air/water/food!!!
No, not really. What I am left wondering though is there a natural flow of emotions when you first start? I know that emotions are pretty high and low, and all over the place anyway. (I can confirm that just by reading my own blogs) What I mean is....mentally and emotionally, considering that we seem to have the same problems within hours of each other, is there a progression of sorts from day to day that is similar to everyone else?
So The Silence said I had to blog about it....sigh....well, that is about all there is to say really on that subject. Any one with any ideas feel free to comment. It intrigues me and The Silence. And he will ask if anyone has replied. So please, don't be shy......
Well, today turned into an interesting day. It became a mini Boot camp day. I am now sitting gingerly on my tush, and not moving much.
We decided this morning that I needed some boosting in obeying the rules and to learn to respect the HOH, and we decided that he needed a boost and more confidence in enforcing the rules. So, all of a sudden I had two hours to put together a mini boot camp.
It has gone well.
We still have not finished it, but the HoH had to go out for an hour or so. While he is gone I have to blog and do a few other things.
It has been an interesting day, and I admire those that do Boot camp for more than one day. Ok, granted ours is a rather condensed version, done over 7 hours where the norm I think is 12.
The HoH started out well. Then got a bit slack in the middle with giving directions,
The hardest bit for me of course was...drum roll please......CONTROL
It sat in the pit of my stomach each time I had to ask for something or do something. But hey, we are almost through it. Hopefully this will sort out some of the problems we have both been having. It is not a solution to everything of course, but at least it might give us both a bit of a wake up call.
I know that discipline, OTK and OTB has been hard for The Silence to do at any time. He has stepped up to the plate (or butt) today and taken charge, even when I was saying no more :(
I am now going to be on the best of behaviour so that I don't have to have him leaning over me at any stage of the night with an implement poised to bounce off tender flesh.
Must go and do this other stuff that needs to be done before he gets back with pizza for dinner :)
May you be blessed and your day/night be spank free!