As the title suggests, we are after some suggestions and advice. By the way, it would be in my best interest, or rather that of my rear if I did not 'have' to blog this post.
I know some of you are probably going to not agree with what I am asking, and that is ok. Everyone does ttwd/dd differently. I don't hold it against you :) But you might still have some valuable advice or suggestions too :)
But if you are a spanker, or rather find yourself OTK or OTB then this post is aimed at you :)
If you are not, then by all means feel free to read on. It is on the suggestion of The Silence that I ask......sigh.
(You know he has his own blog now...he could of asked you himself. )
Right-t-o, first off, here are some photos of our current
These are the homemade loopys
And these are store bought items
That shoe horn...ouch!
These are the homemade paddles, olive canes, and the infamous Mr Glue!
Mr Glue (for Malcolm) 16 inches long, two glue sticks glued together, then heat shrink wrapped over that
This is mean, mean, mean and is only used in the utmost, absolutely utmost circumstances
(thank goodness that I am such an Angel...cough cough)
Moving along now to the question that we need suggestions and advice on, and the reason why I have posted the photos.
(By the way, why is Turkey called Turkey when Turkey does not come from Turkey?)
And that is what happens constantly in our house...way off subject...everytime. We call them 'squirrel moments'
(Don't worry about the answer to that question as The Silence has just looked it up. The answer is this...Turkey used to be called Turkestan, which is a Persian term meaning 'abode of Turks..a place where the Turks live)
Anyhoo, I am avoiding the issue here...
After a spanking should you feel a 'reminder' on rear? For a half hour, hour or a few hours? And if so....What implement does your Hoh use that gives you that reminder?
And here is the reason why those questions have been asked.....
As you can see by the photos, we have an assortment (though most homemade ) of implements. Most hurt like the dickens for an extremely short time. And I mean an extremely short time. By the time the next one bites the first bite is a forgotten memory.
And here is my problem. I want to be reminded for awhile afterwards that I have had a spanking. Have it there to remind me of the reason why I was OTB/OTK in the first place.
Is this normal?
I have what The Silence calls a cast iron butt....only because I have broken a few, ok more than a few, implements.
Is there anything that will actually 'last' ?
If I have to go through a spanking for something then I would rather it be worth the effort of being OTB/OTK.
I know, it sounds weird...maybe I am weird, But honestly,there is no pain other than the actual spanking, there is nothing afterwards, by the time I have given the last count, it is like I have not even had a spanking, my bottom only goes a slight pink. Sometimes I have been reduced to tears (and had that release) and that has been because of the sting of the paddles one after an another. And only then in the most extreme times.
I know this is a weird post...maybe I am just weird and abnormal?
Is there anyone the same? Suggestions? Advice?
The Silence also is at a loss, as he would like me to be 'reminded' too for a while afterwards. Instead of me just getting sassy afterwards.
PS. I would like to point out here, that the issue is the afterwards...not the during. As some of those implements hurt like hell!